Ex-model Cathy Lee on her journey to understanding grandmother’s dementia: ‘I felt bad that we ignored the signs’
- Former actress and her husband donate US$3.85 million for research at British university into disease after family grow to appreciate the suffering her grandmother endured
Cathy Lee Chui Chi-kay’s grandmother became forgetful in the final years of her life, but it never occurred to her family that the elderly woman was suffering from dementia.
“We would just laugh about her getting old ... I felt bad that we ignored the signs,” Lee said.
Her grandmother died about three or four years ago, at the age of 85, by which time she could not identify those closest to her.
“In the last seven or eight years of her life, she started calling me Fong Fong,” Lee said. “Fong Fong is my auntie’s name ... She thought I was her daughter.”
Lee, a former model and actress as well as wife of Henderson Land vice-chairman Martin Lee Ka-shing and daughter-in-law of property tycoon Lee Shau-kee, said it was not until she watched the 2014 American film Still Alice that she began to understand more.