Youth soccer is in need of a parental cultural revolution
Pushy mums and dads as well as combative coaches - who are blighting the chances of youngsters making their way in the sport - need to take a step back
Referees know the biggest tantrums often come, not from kids, but from pushy parents and combative coaches.
There will always be coaches who become hysterical as they try to push their team to win, and who blithely disregard the rules or apply them with utmost precision when it best suits them.
All this off-field drama takes the shine away from the kids, who are supposed to be experiencing the highs and lows of playing the game, while simultaneously enjoying themselves.
In England last year, alarming reports of overzealous “touchline parents” forced Sports Minister Helen Grant to publicly warn parents they face being arrested if they get out of control.
Even youth tournaments at the highest levels cannot escape meddlesome parents. Chelsea manager Jose Mourinho has accused parents and agents as being the biggest threat to youth development.
“They make the players think they have arrived when they haven’t,” Mourinho said. “They think about money before the career starts and everything gets very, very confused.”
Although Mourinho appears to have kept a tight rein on his top trio of young charges – Izzy Brown, Ruben Loftus-Cheek and Nathan Ake – there is little doubt he implies that other managers are under pressure to manage parents and agents.
In Hong Kong, youth players also want more opportunities to train, play and develop.
Research by the Hong Kong Jockey Club and Manchester United has shown there is a significant deterioration in performance levels between Hong Kong teenagers and their British counterparts as they get older.
“I think the local players are just as good as their overseas counterparts and all we need is more opportunities from the management,” said Lo. “If the teams are filled by non-Chinese players, it will have a negative effect on the next generation and they won’t take up the sport.”
Such widely held sentiments have led the HKFA to consider putting a Hong Kong U23 team in the Hong Kong Premier League in the near future to help blood youngsters.
Providing there are no disruptive antics from parents and coaches, such initiatives can only help youth players develop their full potential.