Why Megxit is a win for women and girls: there’s a lot more to real life than being a princess
- Many can’t seem to understand why Meghan Markle wouldn’t want to be a princess. But what woman, especially a self-proclaimed feminist, would really be satisfied with living a life where she can’t speak out or act without royal clearance?
If ever there was a resounding rejection of the idea central to countless fairy tales and romantic films – that marrying a handsome prince is the pinnacle of achievement for a woman – then it has been surely come from Meghan Markle.
Whatever the machinations behind the move, part of the outcry can certainly be attributed to the fact that many simply can’t believe someone would not want to be a princess.
In other words, why would an American actress, who appears to have overcome hurdles of geography and heritage to pull off the ultimate act of hypergamy, then turn her back on a life of privilege, perks and palaces?
But, less than two years later, Markle’s rejection of royal life has been emphatic – the compromises are not worth the proximity to the crown.
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Is it possible that seeking financial independence is not so much about maximising commercial opportunities, or sitting back and enjoying the very large income Harry enjoys by virtue of trust funds without the obligations of royal life? For Markle, financial independence may well equate with freedom.
The freedom to speak out, make decisions and take action without having to seek the permission of royal courtiers or kowtow to the establishment by virtue of having a lifestyle funded by British taxpayers. The freedom to live beyond the very narrow and limited perceptions of how a princess should behave.
If it was any indication of the priorities in her post-royal life, the first public act undertaken by Markle in Canada, where she has been since the couple’s resignation from royal life was announced, was to highlight the work of women’s refuges.
Meghan Markle has chosen to smash her glass slipper to smithereens and send a clear message that marrying well is not a means to an end. This dismissal of this fairy-tale fantasy can only be seen as a win from a feminist perspective.
Melissa Stevens is the Post’s deputy digital editor